This article outlines some fun and flirty games you and your partner could play in the bedroom. Although some of these new and exciting forms of play might seem out of your comfort zone we encourage you to read our article on open-mindedness. This article outlines some of the benefits of approaching each suggestion with an open mind and a willingness to experiment.

These games can also seem sexualized. They are normal and healthy as long as both of the partners consent to participate. We will briefly explain the basic concepts of each game, and then highlight the potential benefits of being open to new forms of play.

We want to emphasize that the more you feel comfortable with your partner, and communicate more openly during sexual play and your relationships, the better.

These are 11 sexy and fun games. They are organized in more sexual and erotic ways. This list can be used to start sex in your life. You can also explore new forms of play to expand your bedroom repertoire.

Notice: These games can be extended to include more than two players.

1. 21 Questions

What to do:

The game of 21 questions is a fun one to play at dinner. Each person can ask the other questions on any topic. Each person can ask the other one question at the time, for a total number of 21 questions. Start by asking simple questions to get to know your partner, and then gradually introduce more risky inquiries. These questions can be anything from “In the perfect world, how do you spend your free time?” to “In all your wildest dreams,” to “In what place would you prefer to have sex?” It is important to ensure that your partner is comfortable answering the question. It is important not to make your partner feel embarrassed or attacked.

Reason:

This game is about getting to know each other and breaking the ice. This can help you get to know your partner better and allow you to ask more about their passions and interests. Each person can ask the other questions and share a bit about themselves.

2. Blindfolded Taste and Guessing

What to do:

Set up a variety of sweet treats, fruits, and food that your partner can taste before you get involved. You can include chocolates, vanilla ice cream and chocolate whipped cream. It is up to you to pick anything your partner likes, or anything that makes them feel sexy. Blindfold your partner, then ask them to name the treat while you give them small bites. Blindfolded people can use anything except their hands to identify the food.

Reason:

This game is designed to build trust between people. It takes a lot trust to ask someone to lose their sight and to let go of control over what they eat. It can be fun and lightened up, which can lead to two people coming closer.

3. Blindfolded Feelings and Guessing

What to do:

Similar to the taste-and-guess game, gather a few items with a unique feel and have the other person guess what they are. You can use a feather or a leather belt to style your hair. One person blindfolds the other and then touches their partner with an object. You can spank, spray, rub, or caress your partner. You can even change the spot where you rub the item. Blindfolded people can be asked to guess which item is being rubbed on the inner thighs, chest, back or neck.

Reason:

Again, this game builds trust and confidence between the players. This game can also be used to increase sexual intimacy by using different parts of the body.

4. Oil Body Massages

What to do:

After a stressful day, this is a relaxing, fun, and sexy activity that both of you can enjoy together. This is not a game, but it can be a way for both of you to relax and enjoy one another’s company. It is possible to identify your partner’s stress points. After you’ve done this, you can work together to get rid of the stress points. You can communicate and work together. You can communicate with each other about what feels good or what needs to be worked on. Or you can just read each others body language to determine when you are reaching a specific spot that needs to be massaged.

Reason:

These body massages have many benefits. They can be done in any way you like, and don’t always need to be sexually explicit. These massages can be very relaxing and a great way to relax your partner and allow them to explore their bodies. Communicating with your partner can help you learn the best ways to massage someone, even if you’ve never done it before. With time and practice, you’ll be able to deliver satisfying massages. This skill can prove to be very useful as it can be perceived as extremely sexy to be able to give great massages.

Not only can you use your partner’s favorite scent in a lotion, but you can also use coconut oil if you prefer the healthier option for your skin.

5. Teasing, Dirty Talking and Blindfolding

What to do:

This game takes things to the next level in erotica. This involves one person being verbally teased by another person while blindfolded. The game’s focus is not on sex but foreplay. This game is designed to build anticipation and make it easier to engage in sex. Blindfolded people can sit, stand, or lie down on their backs, but they must be careful not to physically interact with the person being teased. The non-blindfolded person starts the game by keeping all verbal interactions between them to a minimum. The non-blindfolded player should also keep bodily contact light and brief. Remember to tease. Don’t give away everything at the beginning. Both people will eventually be able to talk to one another and share their feelings, but only one person can touch the other.

Reason:

You can feel more pleasure if you anticipate, expect, and enjoy sex. You may be surprised at how little stimulation can make a big difference. This is the best part about it. You can make a dream together and then live it out. Set expectations, then keep them. First, and most importantly, create sexual tension.

6. Sexual Fantasy Role Play

What to do:

The game involves dressing up as a character and playing a role. Many people like to play dominant or submissive roles such as teacher, student, cop, robber, etc. However, others enjoy seductive roles such as housemaids. Only your imagination can limit the possibilities. You can even make it a slow, erotic strip. This would be a time when people would seduce others by taking off their clothes.

Reason:

It is a place where people can indulge their fantasies, fetishes and obsessions. Enjoy yourself and let loose. You can play any role you choose and make the most of it. If you feel the need to, tap into your wild side. You can wear a cape or wave your sword like Zorro. It’s all about having fun, letting go and not worrying about what others think. You can also set background music to help set the mood if you feel like it. Play some old western songs if you want your character to be a cowgirl.

7. Sexy Dice Game

What to do:

You can either buy the actual sexy dice online or at sex shops or save some money by making your own. You can also write down the names for different body parts (e.g. legs, feet, inner thighs, lips, breasts, neck, penis and vaginal). You can also write down different actions (e.g. pinch, blow, suckle, massage, scratch and stroke). Keep them separate in two bowls and place them on slips of paper. Whatever option you choose, make sure that the dice or slips have activities you actually enjoy. After you have your set of sexy dice, decorate the house or room with candles, dim lighting, soft music and other great smells. You can choose whatever mood you like and create a comfortable environment.

Reason:

The anticipation of the next combination of options is what makes this game so much fun. It’s impossible to predict what you will get and can be as simple as massaging your partner’s neck or as complicated as blowing on their nipple. You have many options, and you can go crazy if you go slip-and-bowl.

8. Spin the Sex Manual

What to do:

This game is for adventurous couples. You will need a sex book and 2 or 3 dice, depending on how many pages you have. If you are short of dice, you can use a random generator on your phone or computer. This option allows you to create a number scale that you can match with the pages in the manual. One of the partners will either use the random number generator or roll the dice to start the game. The page in the sex book corresponds to the number that the dice land on or the generator gives. Give it a go. Some might seem too intense or impossible so you can set some guidelines to make sure that each partner is comfortable doing what they are doing.

Reason:

This game’s purpose is to help you expand your horizons and learn about new and exciting sex acts and positions. It’s not clear which position you will end up in, so it’s up you to decide if you want to go for it. We encourage you to do only the things you feel comfortable with, but we also encourage you to try new things. Even though they may seem awkward at first, you should try all of them. You will not only expand your sex range, but you may also discover new and exciting sex positions.

9. Dare or Strippong

What to do:

You will need two pingpong balls, plus some extra for if you lose one. Twenty cups will be required as well as a few extra water cups to rinse the balls after each throw. You can fill the twenty cups with whatever beverage you like. Another variation uses alcoholic beverages. It is important that you and your partner consent to sexual contact after drinking alcohol. Learn more about consent.

Both players begin by putting the ball in one of the cups and making eye contact. The cup is thrown into the cup by the first person or team to shoot.

Every shot will be elicited a response to the dare. You can always overrule a dare by taking off one piece of clothing at a given time. So if you get a shot into one of your cups, you have two options: either go ahead with the dare or take off one piece of clothing. You will likely be nude if you don’t do any dares after ten cups.

Reason:

This game can be used to foreplay each other. It encourages people to test each other’s limits and boundaries. It can also be very motivating to see your partner slowly shave.

10. Director’s Cut

What to do:

This game should only be done with someone you trust. You and your partner share equal access to the camera, and each can record the other however they wish. The goal is to make the most erotic movie possible while having fun.

Reason:

Sometimes, this game can play into your sexual fantasies and desires. It can be very sexually charged and enjoyable to watch the footage again with your partner. This can help you to rekindle your love and encourage you to play new and different types of games with your partner.